San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating

If you’re frustrated with dating apps and are looking to meet real people in real time, then Speed Dating Events with Little Gay Book are for you! In this era of passive online dating and detached texting, we get you face-to-face with real people in real time for real conversations, real connections, and real 2nd dates.

Little Gay Book

Join San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ singles for a fun night of fast flirting and meet someone special.  5 minutes is all it takes!

Cork & Stem

In-Person Speed Dating Events

Join Little Gay Book for a lively in-person speed dating event for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, & Queer singles. Meet new people and spark real connections in a fun, welcoming atmosphere. Hosted by Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking service.

Join us for San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans &amp; Queer+ Speed Dating, a fun, welcoming speed dating experience designed to make you feel hopeful, energized, and open to meaningful connection. At San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans &amp; Queer+ Speed Dating, you'll enjoy:• A lively, well-hosted LBTQ+ speed dating event filled with laughter, flirting, and engaging one-on-one conversations• Up to ten five-minute dates• Smart, algorithm-driven matches powered by Dr. Frankie's 20 years of experience as a trusted LGBTQ+ matchmaker and relationship expert• Contact information for your matches after the event, making it easy to continue conversations and build real connections Whether you are newly single, newly out, or simply ready to try something new, this San Diego speed dating event offers a low-pressure, high-connection way to meet like-minded singles in your community.

Venue:Cork &amp; Stem1035 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103🥂 Two drink minimum required. Non-alcoholic options available.

Event Timing for San Diego Lesbian, Bi, Trans &amp; Queer+ Speed Dating:Check-in begins at 5:30 PM PTPlease arrive no later than 5:55 PM PTLate arrivals will not be permitted to participate in speed dating.The event will start promptly at 6:00 PM PT and conclude at 8:00 PM PTWe encourage you to arrive early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches.

FAQ:Q: How does the matching technology work?A: Our matching system was developed by Dr. Frankie after nearly 20 years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking experience. Before the event, you share your preferences on age range and where your ideal date falls on the masculine-to-feminine spectrum. Our system then prioritizes speed dates with people who align with those preferences, creating a more intentional experience than traditional speed dating. While the technology improves compatibility, it does not guarantee every match will be your ideal type.Q: Who is this event for? A: Our Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer Speed Dating events are designed for lesbian, bisexual, nonbinary, and genderqueer folks who want to connect, flirt, and see where things go. This event is not for gay/cis men. Looking for our GBTQ+ events? <a href="https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-gbtq/" title="https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-gbtq/" target="_blank" data-msys-clicktrack="0" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer">Click here.</a>These events are proudly trans-welcoming. Kindness is required, respect is non-negotiable, and intolerance of any kind is a no-go. We ask everyone to honor names, pronouns, and identities so all attendees can feel comfortable being themselves. Anyone unable to do so may be asked to leave.This is a 21+ event, with adults of all ages encouraged to join. Come with an open mind, a good attitude, and maybe a little spark. We’ll handle the rest.Q: What happens during the speed dating event?A: You will have up to ten one-on-one conversations that last five minutes. After each date, you privately note whether you would like to connect again. The system then identifies mutual matches after the event.Q: What should I do after the event ends?A: We encourage you to stay after the event, mingle, and support the venue. It's a chance for great conversations, new friendships, and connections that go beyond the event. Your continued presence can make the experience even more memorable, and some of the best conversations happen after the structured portion of the event ends.Q: How can I connect with my matches after the event?A: After the event, you'll receive the contact information for your matches, allowing you to take those promising connections to the next level.Q: Can I come alone?A: Yes. Most people attend solo. Speed dating is designed to make meeting new people easy, even if you arrive on your own.Q: What if I am shy or new to dating events?A: That is very common. The structured format helps take the pressure off because everyone is there for the same reason, and the short conversations make it easier to break the ice. There is also a friendly host who guides the event and makes sure everyone feels comfortable and welcome from the moment they arrive. If you are new or a little nervous, you will be in good company. Many guests are trying speed dating for the first time.Q: Where can I find more Lesbian, Bi, Trans, Queer+ speed dating events?A: You can explore all of our upcoming events on our website: <a href="https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-lbtq/" title="https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-lbtq/" target="_blank" data-msys-clicktrack="0" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer">Little Gay Book LBTQ+ Speed Dating Events</a>

<h3>Each event is expertly run by one of our welcoming hosts who keep things fun, friendly, and flowing. No awkward pauses. No weird silences. Just good vibes, great people, and not one “ghost” or “catfish” in sight.</h3>

Need Assistance? 📧 Email: <a href="" title="" target="_blank" data-msys-clicktrack="0" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer">events@littlegaybook.com</a> 📞 Phone: 510-775-1036By registering, you consent to SMS updates (reply STOP to opt-out).All sales are final. No refunds.💸 Insider Tip: Lock in your lower rate now, and your heart (and wallet) will thank you later.

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